For one species, we humans have
developed an astounding amount of cultural diversity. These vastly different
ways of thinking manifest in each one of us across the globe, and no two
people’s minds, beliefs, or philosophies are the same. Therefore, I tend to see
every person in my life as a new library of thought, with a wholly unique
system of understanding treasured within. By interacting with people whose
brains sharply contrast ours, we can gain invaluable insights that give new
depth and perspective to our lives.
One notable example of when I
engaged in this mind-opening process occurred just last summer. I was on a
mission trip with my youth group in Ashville, North Carolina, a beautiful city
with a charming downtown not unlike ours here in Lexington. Our group had
walked to a park in the town, Pritchard Park, where the city’s homeless
residents gather to eat, converse, and rest. We passed out water to those who
wanted it, and we began to socialize with them, putting a particular emphasis
on our beliefs. It was under a pure blue sky and within the gentle embrace of a
pleasant breeze where I met Ron. A scruffy, greasy-looking man in a bandana and
t-shirt, Ron had the gruff countenance and of a guy not to be messed with. But
I sat down next to him, and we began a casual conversation easily enough. The
topic quickly turned to religion and philosophy, and in Ron, a tattooed ex-con,
I found a person strikingly similar to myself. During his time in jail, he had
read and pondered his existence extensively, and was keen to compare his
findings with mine. Although I was Christian and he was not, we shared the view
that differing religions, races, genders, and sexualities have no need to harm
each other, just to learn from each other. He respected that I did not preach
fire and brimstone to him, and I respected his reservations against some of my
Christian compatriots. We both wanted respectful peace and a thirst for
knowledge to prevail, not this bitter conflict we see today.
Before this incident, I had
discussed and debated my faith with some of my peers, but the concept of
“evangelizing” to strangers had always stricken me as pushy and disrespectful.
Meeting Ron changed that. I saw that two people, contrary to popular belief, can share conflicting views without any
trace of bigotry or insolence. Emphasizing respect has now become my goal when
I spread my faith, interact with others, and even engage in class. For I
realize that sharing ideas does not mean overpowering others. Sharing is
learning, not conflict.
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